Conversations on hell with modern clerics

One night after I had done a lot of reading about the concept of Universal Salvation, I decided I want to discuss the topic at this evening group I go to. About eight or so people in this group. The leader is always telling us we should feel free to bring up any topic we like. Nothing is sacred in this group. His name is Colin.So I ask the group, especially Colin, if I can discuss this topic I have been thinking about. Without telling him the topic.

‘Absolutely,’ says Colin, gesturing with his hands.

‘It is a controversial topic,’ I say.

The interest of the others is quickened, and Colin is not perturbed.

No, go ahead, that is what this group is for,’ he reiterates.

I start to feel nervous. ‘I mean it is quite an argumentative topic. It may cause dissension.’

But their curiousity is up now. ‘Please go ahead,’ several chip in.

I pause. ‘Okay, but I will keep it short, and we will just look at a few verses in the Bible to lay out the thing.’

Colin is very relaxed, this is what he is hoping this little group will do, feel free to discuss anything.

‘The topic is one that is called universal salvation. Now I’m not saying it is true now, I am merely saying I have been looking at it for a while, and it is a very interesting one.’

I can’t swear it, but I feel a stiff silence has suddenly descended. Could be just me. I push on in the still atmosphere. ‘I am going to get several of you to read verses out of the Bible that tell us how everyone in the world ends up being saved by the work of Christ. Everyone.’

‘Sandy, you first, your verse is Isaiah 45:22.’

I give everyone in the group one of the following verses to read.

Isaiah 45:22
“Turn to me and be saved,
all you ends of the earth;
for I am God, and there is no other.
By myself I have sworn,
my mouth has uttered in all integrity
a word that will not be revoked:
Before me every knee will bow;
by me every tongue will swear.

I tell people to take notice of words like ‘every’ or ‘all.’

John 12:32. Jesus said, “But I, when I am lifted up from the earth, will draw all men to myself.”

1 Corinthians 15:22. For as in Adam all die, so in Christ all will be made alive.

Phillipians 2:10. that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth, and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.

1 Timothy 4:10. (and for this we labor and strive), that we have put our hope in the living God, who is the Savior of all men, and especially of those who believe.

The silence is deafening as they finish reading their verses. I am aware of this, but force myself to bring my piece to a close. ‘We’ve only looked at a few of these verses, but they do seem to suggest that all men will be saved don’t they? Like I mean that eventually the love of God through Jesus is so great that it will totally overcome evil. And the devil gets nobody in the end.’

‘Any thoughts on this,’ I ask.

The floodgates immediately open. From Colin. ‘This is a classical mistake of taking verses out of context. If you look at verses like this without reading the context they are placed in, then this is how this fallacious type of thinking can emerge.’

Bryan, you silly fool, I tell myself. You should know better.

Bill chimes in from the other side of the room. Bill loves controversy. ‘Why, what has Bryan said that is wrong? He just read some verses out, and tried to start a discussion. Now we are getting told at the outset he is wrong without even examining the topic.’

Colin is in full flight. ‘I had to deal with this sort of thing at Bible college. These modern professors with all their liberal theology. The Bible is very clear on the fact that there is a heaven and a hell, and that the unsaved are going to hell unless they repent. I will not allow this group to be exposed to such heresy as is being suggested here.’

Oh boy, oh boy, I lean back in my chair. Should have shut up son, should have shut up. Keep your opinions to yourself.

But Bill is at his throat like a tiger. His blood is up. ‘Look, not five minutes ago, you were telling us that anything could be discussed here, and now an interesting topic comes up. Suddenly it is out of bounds. Let me ask you this. Are you saying that if a baby is born to unsaved parents, and then dies before it reaches the age of understanding, that baby will go to hell? Is that what you are saying?’

Colin pauses. He is trapped. But he commits. Courageously. ‘Yes.’

Bill explodes. ‘You may be entitled to your opinion, and I will be entitled to mine. I cannot believe that a God of love would do that.’

I hardly say a word for the rest of the evening. But tempers flare up and down. Eventually the host phones the Pastor for an opinion. I’m thinking, well this is Christendom yesterday and today. You want an authoritative answer, ask the clergy.

He comes back with his answer. ‘Peter says it is another of those AFLs. Awaiting Further Light.’

Oh, you religiously correct animal Peter, I murmur to myself, unsure whether I admire or despise his one liner.

-

I try it again. I want to discuss this topic. I want it public. I am a guest at a large house, sitting with the hostess, and a younger man. He is leading an evangelical team. We loosen up awhile, then I broach the topic.

He leans back. The lean contains the feel that he has an intelligent person in front of him, that he should be calm here, and lead me through the mire of strange opinions I have. All that in one lean. The brain is marvelous isn’t it, sensing these attitudes which may or may not be correct, but seem to fit the occasion.

‘I can understand how you feel on this one Bryan.’

Whoa now, that’s my line. This guy has been Dale Carnegied too. Watch it.

‘I think none of us would be human if we didn’t ask that question of ourselves. None of us want our neighbours or friends to go to hell.’

Oh, that is good. Laying out the baited lines, agreeing with me. He must pounce soon.

‘You know Paul never mentions the word hell once’, I inform him.

‘Correct. That’s not where the problem is. It’s Jesus who talks about hell a lot.’

‘True, but some commentators feel he is talking about a hell on earth that people lead themselves into.’

‘I concede that, but we need to look at the general breadth of understanding of the church over the centuries. The church, and theologians in general, have taken the topic seriously and believe that the Bible does point towards a distinct hell.’

I’m going to get this joker. Didn’t think it would be so easy though. I expected better from him.

‘Surely just because the majority of theologians believe in it doesn’t mean that it shouldn’t be examined again. Plenty of theologians, and the church in general, were against women voting.’

I can’t resist being the funny guy here. In front of my wonderful female host. ‘Of course, that judgement does give them some credibility doesn’t it?’

Polite laughter, but my opposite sees the comment as flight rather than fight. He won’t let go.

‘Yes but you are left with an interesting question then. Why should people commit to Christ if they are going to heaven anyway?’

Gotcha. I’m starting to lose interest already in this conversation. Why doesn’t he read Romans chapter six where that exact question was asked two thousand years ago.

‘If hell is the only reason people should come to Jesus, then we are in a pretty bad state aren’t we?’

He knows he has overstepped, and takes flight again himself.

‘It is a very difficult one for us all Bryan. Take my parents. We have talked with them on numerous occasions about the Lord, but they have not made a decision to follow him. I dearly love my parents and do not want them to go to hell.’

I push him more. ‘We are talking here about a God of love. More love than we could ever understand. A supreme being, bigger than this universe, composed of love. Can you imagine him taking your parents, who loved you, did some good things, did some bad things, lived ordinary lives for seventy years, and then throwing them into a fiery pit for one hundred years. No, one thousand years. No, one million years. No, forever.’

‘I can’t claim to understand that Bryan. That is where faith comes in. I don’t know everything that lies behind the decision making of God. I just have to believe that his action for my parents will be based on love, even though it doesn’t seem like it to me.’

Well, that was honest even if it did sound screwy.

He engages me closer now. ‘You wouldn’t truly be a loving Christian if you didn’t ask these questions Bryan. Every believer would ask the same questions. But the Bible is plain about it.’

He is coming in for the kill.

‘Let’s pray before we get going. Do you mind if I commit us to the Lord?’

‘No, go ahead,’ I say, already feeling there is a manipulating prayer coming, remembering when I was younger and had discussed religion with the Mormons at the door, and they, too, asked if they could close in prayer.

‘Lord, each of us has many questions about how you work, and the nature of heaven and hell. There are many things that are quite difficult for us to understand, quite difficult. I know that I do not have all the answers. We also have friends and families that we love dearly and do not want to see descend into the pit. We pray that we will be fervent and faithful in witnessing to these loved ones, and we ask your forebearance with them. And also with us.

I would like to commit my brother Bryan, with his questions, to you. I pray that you would guide him into a clear understanding about these matters, that you would enable him to see your plan for mankind. We commit ourselves to you. In Jesus name, Amen.’

There is no need to extend the conversation. Why could he not analyse his own words? That if God works in Christians lives, and Christians cannot understand how God can chuck innocents into hell, perhaps God is telling them something of his nature?

But he was such a nice young man. He was so genuine.

-

I am talking with a lady now. She has been married and divorced twice. Can’t seem to make it in relationships. And she knows why. When she was a young child, she was sexually abused for three years by one of the elders of her conservative church. She had no-one to talk to, nobody to open up to. The situation was out of her control. Her compensation in later life is to create controlled situations for her social and relational life.

She knows she does it, but cannot change. Her marriages fail due to her attempts to manipulate controlling situations. Counselling and indepth therapy have revealed all this to her. But it is too deep to alter.

She looks forward to the rest of her life in loneliness. Her hackles rise when she hears of acts of love being performed by Christians. There is a block against the church.

Who can blame her?

Who can say to her, ‘well, it doesn’t matter, you should turn to Jesus despite these experiences.’

Who could condemn her to an eternity in a fiery pit for circumstances like this? She is enduring a version of hell on earth as it is.

-

Here is an older man listening to me. He is well respected nationwide as an advisor to young leaders in the church. I hardly know him, but am sharing my deepest feelings with him. He listens. Without comment. He is a loving man. He empathises with me. I can feel his strength. Here is a man who would always listen, who would weep with you.

Later that evening we talk again, on more general topics in a group now. One of us asks him how he feels about Moslems. He works in Islamic countries sometimes.

‘There is something about their religion that is disturbing, the violence. I simply cannot see how religion can lead anyone to do some of the things the Taliban do. Incredible cruelty.’

My attitude changes from that morning. ‘Sounds a bit like the Christians during the Crusades,’ I venture.

‘Oh, you’re right, there are many things that we in the church have to answer for. Our history is nothing to be proud of, you can be sure of that.’

I press on again. ‘In fact it must be pretty hard for some people to come to Christ, what with all the garbage the church has thrown up over the centuries. All the divisions.’

The word division reminds him of a story. ‘You know, the other day I got a call from a colleague who asked me to speak at a rally with John Brownley. Thing is, John once said from a stage in front of five thousand young people that he would never be seen on the same platform as someone from the Uniting Church.’

He laughs at this. ‘Anyway, old John has changed. Joins us at the ecumenical meetings. We have Anglicans, Presbyterians, Wesleyans, Baptists and other denominations there. Even Catholics. Times have changed.’

I lean back in despair. Here is a respected leader, an advisor to up and comers nationwide, congratulating himself that he meets with Catholics these days. That progress is indeed being made. The vast irrelevance of denominational settings, of religion itself, overwhelms me temporarily. Is this where we are at? The world has more civil wars than ever, millions still starve, Aids is rampant in Africa, but well, you know, I’ve got some Catholic friends. God must be pleased with that sort of momentum.

But he is nice.

He is so nice. I can’t even blame him for his conservatism. He has suffered the non-thought of church committees, of religious conferences, of tentative conversations where niceness prevails, where the boat can only be rocked a little, where fiery young man are politely listened to, knowing they will eventually come down to earth and be doormen, handing out hymnbooks on Sundays.

On my wall is a painting by Rembrandt – Jeremiah lamenting the fall of Jerusalem. It was unthinkable in his day, as the demise of the institutional church is today. Or is it?

4 comments to Conversations on hell

  • Joel

    Hi Bryan. I’m not looking to start a cyber-fight, first of all because that’s nerdy and secondly because I’m not sure it ever does any good to argue back and forth, online or otherwise. I read your other article about the “Forbidden Topic” for a Bible discussion group. I gotta be honest, I did write you off. I rolled my eyes way back in my head and left the page ’cause I figured, “What can you say to this?” But I don’t believe God is an eye-roller or a “pffshaw”-er. So I’m sorry for that. And I felt I should chime in instead of just cyber-walking away. I’m not a great speaker or debater; I’ve tried leading discussion groups and so forth, and I’m just not good at it, I guess I’m just not a very effective communicator.

    And you’ve made some other pretty good points. That your workaday ‘Christian’ isn’t making much of an effort to serve, or even love, or even stop sinning occasionally, and that monotonous life is antithetical to the life Jesus preached, the kind of life he promised if you come to God through him. And you talk about the ‘institutional’ church. I grew up being forced to go to one like that, and it inspired me to disavow spirituality altogether until I was 21. Sweet deal. I also don’t understand why anyone would say that simply because a bunch of theologians believe something about the Bible that it must be true of the Bible. Since when did men doing or not doing something change the truths that God established? Maybe the Lord would ‘pffshaw’ that. I dunno.

    I get the impression you genuinely believe what the Bible says about salvation, or you wouldn’t be arguing about it with anyone. While I think this whole post is pretty sad and, frankly, a little aggravating (especially some of the quotes, if those are actually their very words and haven’t been embellished, from the people you’d talked about this with – these slow-to-listen-quick-to-speak-quick-to-become-angry dispositions), I have to admit (and most probably won’t agree with me, but I’ll say it anyway) that I don’t feel the Bible is very specific about hell. Jesus talks about ‘hell,’ the Valley of Gehenna, quite a bit, and from some serious study I’ve learned a bit about what he was talking about. Without going into detail, it was essentially a landfill of Jerusalem’s garbage that was constantly being burned up. So I can imagine him using this, in the context of talking to the Jews in Jerusalem, as a very illuminating illustration for how terrible it would be to be separated from God, if God is, as (the apostle John said and) you said yourself, love. But I can’t say for sure that’s a normative x-is-like-y statement. He doesn’t exactly describe heaven in detail either, he just gives illustrations. I don’t see the Bible being “plain about hell” at all. What would it look like? Would it look like anything? Would it feel like anything? Is it just another way of describing utter destruction, a ceasing to exist? Will/would God make them suffer physically, or is it more of a mental or spiritual anguish for having refused to love God? I dunno! Pretty bizarre.

    But you quoted Paul a few times. What about where he said, “The acts of the sinful nature are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity and debauchery; idolatry and witchcraft; hatred, discord, jealousy, fits of rage, selfish ambition, dissensions, factions, and envy; drunkenness, orgies, and the like. I warn you, as I did before, that those who live like this will not inherit the kingdom of God,” in Galatians 5:19-21? Or in Philippians 3:17-19, when he said, “Join with others in following my example, brothers, and take note of those who live according to the pattern we gave you. For, as I have often told you before and now say again even with tears, many live as enemies of the cross of Christ. Their destiny is destruction, their god is their stomach, and their glory is in their shame. Their mind is on earthly things”? Here’s a long one: “If we deliberately keep on sinning after we have received the knowledge of the truth, no sacrifice for sins is left, but only a fearful expectation of judgment and of raging fire that will consume the enemies of God. Anyone who rejected the law of Moses died without mercy on the testimony of two or three witnesses. How much more severely do you think a man deserves to be punished who has trampled the Son of God underfoot, who has treated as an unholy thing the blood of the covenant that sanctified him, and who has insulted the Spirit of grace? For we know him who said, “It is mine to avenge; I will repay,” and again, “The Lord will judge his people.” It is a dreadful thing to fall into the hands of the living God….So do not throw away your confidence; it will be richly rewarded. You need to persevere so that when you have done the will of God, you will receive what he has promised…But we are not of those who shrink back and are destroyed, but of those who believe and are saved.” Hebrews 10:26-39 (with a paragraph and a half omitted for the sake of saving space)

    You quoted some pretty brief verses in your article. Those quotes were taken out of context, but not just the context of the passage, or even the whole chapter. Maybe including that context doesn’t do anything to refute your point about universal salvation, but I definitely think the context of the rest of the Bible does. I can’t use the context of the verses you quoted to describe why I feel you’re mistaken, because I imagine you’d want to link references to destruction, or perishing, or hell, etc., to physical death or a very difficult life on earth ending in disgrace, or as you said “hell on earth” or some such thing.

    But the Bible’s pretty clear when it sets them side by side and talks about ‘being saved’ and ‘destruction’ – the writer of Hebrews, just before that long quote, says in verses 19 and 22, “Therefore, brothers, since we have confidence to enter the Most Holy Place by the blood of Jesus..(then some sentences I don’t feel the need to put down because they don’t detract from or add to my point)..let us draw near to God with a sincere heart in full assurance of faith…” First he talks about how we come to God through Jesus, and then he goes on and makes the point that one can either shrink back from faith in him and be destroyed, or believe and be saved.

    I’d like to say more but I’m not sure it’d do any good. I’m sorry you had a ‘manipulative prayer’ prayed over you. I don’t like those either. And I don’t know that I’m right about everything I believe, so I won’t pretend to be coming at you with all of it figured out. But this universal salvation idea makes this very powerful God out to be a very small and sissy ‘god’ – a ‘god’ who is not just, a god who has no desire to reward anyone for love and obedience, a god who is not patient because he doesn’t have to bear with any objects of wrath while giving them abundant time and opportunity to appreciate his love for them, a god who is not a father but an old and senile benefactor who can’t tell a rat from his children. I guess I sound a little upset there at the end. Again, I’m sorry.

  • admin

    Hi Joel,
    thanks for your thoughts. We certainly agree there is nothing gained by a cyber fight. That’s quite a good start. I’m not sure whether you were inviting a conversation. I live in New Zealand by the way.
    What about yourself?
    Cheers
    Bryan

  • martyn haggerty

    Even Hitlers’ henchmen shot the Jews before they were burned in the gas ovens and yet you expect me to believe that a loving God is going to send the vast majority of mankind to burn alive in hell for eternity!

  • Ginger P.

    This does sound an awful lot like cyber fights. It also sounds like someone who has gathered up some scriptures to flesh out his views and have launched into intentional debates/arguments with Christians *just* to see how they may hang themselves with their take on it. You seem to like to get people upset and arguing over something the Bible has described. What else does it mean where it says, “a place of wailing and gnashing of teeth….where the worm dieth not…..darkness…..eternal torment?” It does not say that it will be negated if someone starts enough arguments or upsets X amount of Christians. I am wondering what your stake in all this is. Why do you feel so motivated to go into otherwise benign situations and start a blood bath? Do you imagine God wants you to divide his sheep further than they already are? Do you think God’s kingdom is served when you drop a bomb in the middle of a Bible study? In all your talk about getting people to think and all those other pale excuses for inflammatory comments, does all this make *you* think? Do you fancy yourself an agent of God that stirs the nest and scrapes the moss off? As a Bible believing Christian,I trust what it says about Heaven & Hell. While Jesus didn’t expand on many of the things he spoke about, he was speaking to people of the day in terms they could easily grasp. However, the Apostles *did* clarify things. 1. God is not the author of confusion. 2. God does not intend for people to go to hell. They send *themselves* there by rejecting his plan of salvation (or New Covenant). Free Will is a broad subject. Yes, they have a choice to freely accept him or not, but something else goes with it. Free Will keeps God from interfering in people’s lives….whether for the best or worst. We all don’t like to think of God “sending sweet little old _______” to hell. He didn’t want to send Jesus to Calvary, either. He had to literally turn his back on his son as all the sins of the world was heaped upon him. You may notice I haven’t included scripture references. You ALREADY know where all these things are mentioned. You just like being able to knock over the any hill and get the ants scurrying. That’s all this amounts to. Finally, #4: nowhere in the Bible in the list of the jobs in God’s kingdom (pastor, teacher, deacon, etc) nowhere does it mention “an infuriator…a trouble maker…a divisionary.” All this just reminds me of those hackers that go onto issue sites and say all the opposite things *just* to get a fight started. I honestly don’t know how you live with yourself. This completely flies in the face of “Blessed Are The Peacemakers…” You are doing anything and everything except make peace. This whole thing makes me wonder if you aren’t just one of those hacker types that still live in their parents’ basement and live for the days when they can get some attention for themselves by getting a fight going.